Three Signs That You’re Being Lied to Your Face and You’re Not Even Realizing It
“Hi AG, I’ve been having trouble trusting my romantic relationships lately. The last partner I had told me she was a nurse and single, but she turned out to be a stripper and was married. She was also a gambling addict, and they ended up handcuffing her in front of me because she had several outstanding felonies. Do I know how to pick them or what?” I responded to him with a personal story. I promised to write an article extending myself to give her some advice on how to know who to trust and who not to trust without becoming paranoid. This is my method, dear J, for knowing whether or not someone is lying to me based on one of the most toxic relationships I’ve ever had. At the beginning of every relationship, we are so blind that we don’t want to see reality. And it is right at the beginning where liars tell us the biggest lies.
In this first stage of every relationship, we are willing to swallow the most unrealistic lies to keep having good sex, not being alone, or whatever it is you want in a relationship.
I met someone thanks to an APP. On the first date, she says she is a physiotherapist (it was a lie). On the second date, we did it. The next day, she calls and asks, “Do you love me?”. I tell her, “I just met you”. She replies, “Well, don’t kill me because I’m a blood donor, and I got a letter saying I have syphilis. I’m sure I got it from my ex, a womanizer, and now you have to get tested”. I swallowed the excuse. In fact, when I went with her to get tested (fortunately, they were negative), the doctor who attended to me after knowing the story asked me, “Are you going to continue dating her?”
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